I was wondering if anyone has suggestions on how to deal with an issue on communication. This specifically affects changes in plans, pick ups/drop offs etc.
I literally have no idea what is ever going on, despite the fact that I maintain a calendar that both my ex and children are on. My ex has times to pick up and drop off the kids, but he will pick them up early (before I get home from work), pick them up from school (I don't know about it). He will send them a text (10 year old) and tell them. I literally have no idea what is going on. I usually wait for the kids to tell me, but I feel like it's exhausting for them, as they are like a go a between.
I have indicated that this is not productive (to my ex) and that I don't think he should be communicating changes in schedules to a 10 year old.
As background - signed separation agreement, filed with court.
Any thoughts on how to navigate this?
I literally have no idea what is ever going on, despite the fact that I maintain a calendar that both my ex and children are on. My ex has times to pick up and drop off the kids, but he will pick them up early (before I get home from work), pick them up from school (I don't know about it). He will send them a text (10 year old) and tell them. I literally have no idea what is going on. I usually wait for the kids to tell me, but I feel like it's exhausting for them, as they are like a go a between.
I have indicated that this is not productive (to my ex) and that I don't think he should be communicating changes in schedules to a 10 year old.
As background - signed separation agreement, filed with court.
Any thoughts on how to navigate this?
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