Hello,
So I recently received a letter from the ex’s lawyer that they are getting a date for case conference to schedule a motion to fight for access and will be going after full costs. So here’s the situation: my ex and I live apart with our son living with me. Never did I impede on his access. Last year pre Covid he was coming biweekly and I even give him all the stuff and food to make sure our son is taken care of. Post Covid he wasn’t coming regularly anymore. Even after stage 3 hit he’s come maybe once or twice and had his overnights with our son by either residing in a hotel or with his family but stopped coming regularly. I’m okay with him coming and sharing the holidays but he wants weeks at a time each month before our son goes to kindergarten next year. He’s such a small child. I don’t want to fight but I don’t see the logic of what he wants. If this goes to court from your experience — will he be able to get a court order to that degree. Also costs— provided I give a good offer to settle will he be getting his costs from me or is this a scare tactic? I’m just so fed up.
So I recently received a letter from the ex’s lawyer that they are getting a date for case conference to schedule a motion to fight for access and will be going after full costs. So here’s the situation: my ex and I live apart with our son living with me. Never did I impede on his access. Last year pre Covid he was coming biweekly and I even give him all the stuff and food to make sure our son is taken care of. Post Covid he wasn’t coming regularly anymore. Even after stage 3 hit he’s come maybe once or twice and had his overnights with our son by either residing in a hotel or with his family but stopped coming regularly. I’m okay with him coming and sharing the holidays but he wants weeks at a time each month before our son goes to kindergarten next year. He’s such a small child. I don’t want to fight but I don’t see the logic of what he wants. If this goes to court from your experience — will he be able to get a court order to that degree. Also costs— provided I give a good offer to settle will he be getting his costs from me or is this a scare tactic? I’m just so fed up.
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