I have to disagree with you. When dealing with a narcissist HCP then playing the tug of war feeds into their need to control and actually does damage my relationship with my kids. As I'm told that mom always wants to blame me for everything!
I'm not creating conflict I simply want to pick up my kids Thursdays to Mondays and attend a yearly or bi-yearly tournament. My insisting they come and not be able to take them go the tournament due to lack of papers will not help my case.
That's just my opinion. It's not being passive it's trying to take the high road because I agree with you that she is putting the kids in the middle.
I know one day the kids will see the true picture although it's evident that they are already figuring it out. Soon they will have their own voice without having to fear the repercussions from their mother. Children dont stay children forever!
I'm not creating conflict I simply want to pick up my kids Thursdays to Mondays and attend a yearly or bi-yearly tournament. My insisting they come and not be able to take them go the tournament due to lack of papers will not help my case.
That's just my opinion. It's not being passive it's trying to take the high road because I agree with you that she is putting the kids in the middle.
I know one day the kids will see the true picture although it's evident that they are already figuring it out. Soon they will have their own voice without having to fear the repercussions from their mother. Children dont stay children forever!
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