I have a situation that I would love to have members reaction to,
I know the usual crowd of throw them to the wolves will chirp in but some constructive help in what is becoming an impossible situation would be helpful.
My spouse of 21 years left 18 months ago and moved approx 450km away from the children and I. Child support was agreed to in mediation and is paid but upon sale of our house they and their lawyer refused to equally divide the proceeds 50/50 and are holding them in trust,
They have canceled all mediation since February claiming the house had to be sold first, it was in July and still no mediation. [B]However[/B] we did receive an offer this week,and its a real joke for us, my spouse is a high earner as was I until a series of heart attacks a few years ago so we agreed I'd stay home and deal with the house and children one is 15 and the other is 8
Ready for this! No spousal at all 1/2 of the home less the gift the parents gave us 18 years ago of 20,000 no medical insurance or any other offset,
and 60,000 to cover the RRSP'S that my spouse drained over the last 30 months and all claims of support now and in the future,.
And they are bitching that the children and I moved closer to friend and family back where we lived 6 years ago, to a home farther away from my spouse in the opposite direction to their move (of 450km) and are threatening to fight the move to the new home. New home is 40km from matrimonial home.(they forced me to leave)
What a joy to fight a person that ran out on misappropriation of funds in the job as an accountant, assaulted me 2 times in front of the kids was found guilty and is on parole and as I discover in the papers they left had a 7 year affair with a coworker, has held back all financial avenues from us save the schedule child support.
One little tidbit, they had a parent die earlier this year and inherited millions
seems they did mot want to be around when the terminal cancer finally provided the inheritance, I know I'm not able to go after that but the kids and I do need support and medical and some sense of stability.
Thanks for your support and suggestions
I know the usual crowd of throw them to the wolves will chirp in but some constructive help in what is becoming an impossible situation would be helpful.
My spouse of 21 years left 18 months ago and moved approx 450km away from the children and I. Child support was agreed to in mediation and is paid but upon sale of our house they and their lawyer refused to equally divide the proceeds 50/50 and are holding them in trust,
They have canceled all mediation since February claiming the house had to be sold first, it was in July and still no mediation. [B]However[/B] we did receive an offer this week,and its a real joke for us, my spouse is a high earner as was I until a series of heart attacks a few years ago so we agreed I'd stay home and deal with the house and children one is 15 and the other is 8
Ready for this! No spousal at all 1/2 of the home less the gift the parents gave us 18 years ago of 20,000 no medical insurance or any other offset,
and 60,000 to cover the RRSP'S that my spouse drained over the last 30 months and all claims of support now and in the future,.
And they are bitching that the children and I moved closer to friend and family back where we lived 6 years ago, to a home farther away from my spouse in the opposite direction to their move (of 450km) and are threatening to fight the move to the new home. New home is 40km from matrimonial home.(they forced me to leave)
What a joy to fight a person that ran out on misappropriation of funds in the job as an accountant, assaulted me 2 times in front of the kids was found guilty and is on parole and as I discover in the papers they left had a 7 year affair with a coworker, has held back all financial avenues from us save the schedule child support.
One little tidbit, they had a parent die earlier this year and inherited millions
seems they did mot want to be around when the terminal cancer finally provided the inheritance, I know I'm not able to go after that but the kids and I do need support and medical and some sense of stability.
Thanks for your support and suggestions
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