Originally posted by staysingle
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1. always wear a digital voice recorder or have a witness with a video camera recording it; and/or.
2. call the police himself and request their assistance with the exchange. Be sure to advise them that he is recording the exchange for fear of false accusations.
But the recording would be gold if they were to make a false accusation as it would show the levels they are willing to stoop too to remove him from his children's lives.
If I were him, I would have the voice recorder AND I would act in a very business like manner. Knock calmly on the parents door, and then walk back to the car. The he can give the kids a hug when they get to him and it puts distance between him and the inlaws. There is ZERO need for him to enter their house etc.
If they refuse to answer the door, he should calmly knock again. And go back to his car. He then waits 20-30 minutes and if the kids do not come, he buys something from a local store and gets the receipt proving he was in the area. He then documents the instance in his journal. He also emails the ex and advises that the children were not exchanged and he would like makeup time as soon as reasonably possible to compensate for this denial of access.
But he has to go. If he doesn't, she will say "Well, he knew the kids were at my parents waiting and he didn't go there." A judge will ask if this is correct and if he confirms it, the judge will tell him next to go there to get them. The friend will then have to argue he fears a false accusation and why he would like another neutral location....which may get him a neutral location, but he most likely would not get makeup time.
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