Just need some advice on where I can go from here and what my options are..
The short version is
I have a 6 year old who hasn't seen his bio father in a year.. He only has supervised access by me (mom) or someone agreed upon by both parties.. There has been past drug addictions and mental illness.. The last time he has access would of been when dad told him that he would shoot his mother if he had the chance... I had left the room for 5 minutes... The police and CAS were called and he wouldn't respond to the Cas phone calls and the police wouldn't pursue because it wasn't a direct threat.. CAS closed the case saying he had no interest in the well being of his child.. There was never a close relationship between the 2 of them .. visits involved dad having a nap or just letting his son play on his own while he went outside to have a cigarette...My son has a great relationship with his step dad and thinks of him as his dad, he doesn't ask or talk about his real dad at all anymore.. Now real dad wants to be part of his life and has called the school asking for his report cards and proofs of school photos... he has been told by the principal that these will be mailed to him and he is not to be on school property. He now says he is going to take me to court to get access of our son... I'm really worried that this is going to hurt and confuse our son who is a well adjusted happy little boy...
As well there had been no child support for the last year.. I haven't asked for it since he was leaving us alone... Is it possible that the courts will see that this may not be in the best interest for the 6 year old or am I going to have to face the fact that he may end up being part of our lives?
Any input would be appreciated
The short version is
I have a 6 year old who hasn't seen his bio father in a year.. He only has supervised access by me (mom) or someone agreed upon by both parties.. There has been past drug addictions and mental illness.. The last time he has access would of been when dad told him that he would shoot his mother if he had the chance... I had left the room for 5 minutes... The police and CAS were called and he wouldn't respond to the Cas phone calls and the police wouldn't pursue because it wasn't a direct threat.. CAS closed the case saying he had no interest in the well being of his child.. There was never a close relationship between the 2 of them .. visits involved dad having a nap or just letting his son play on his own while he went outside to have a cigarette...My son has a great relationship with his step dad and thinks of him as his dad, he doesn't ask or talk about his real dad at all anymore.. Now real dad wants to be part of his life and has called the school asking for his report cards and proofs of school photos... he has been told by the principal that these will be mailed to him and he is not to be on school property. He now says he is going to take me to court to get access of our son... I'm really worried that this is going to hurt and confuse our son who is a well adjusted happy little boy...
As well there had been no child support for the last year.. I haven't asked for it since he was leaving us alone... Is it possible that the courts will see that this may not be in the best interest for the 6 year old or am I going to have to face the fact that he may end up being part of our lives?
Any input would be appreciated
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