Thanks for your response involveddad75
Well I'm not sure you have or haven't, the forum states you joined in May 2017.
I would just look through the forum as a nonmember and decided to join to get some insight from people with experience.
1. Why are you in supervised access? Was this ordered? or did you volenteer for it.
My ex decided that was going to be the way it was. It was never ordered. My ex used previous issues of anxiety to say im not safe and cant be trusted. I have supporting documents from my family doctor and health clinician stating i am in good health. I did not volunteer for it, I have made my position that i want to be a parent in my daughters life and have held the stance of shared parenting.
2. Are you the applicant (meaning your the moving party) or are you the respondent (didn't do anything about changing things until you were served)
I am the Applicant.
3. What jurisdiction are in? Which court house?
KW. Kitchener court house.
4. Disputing the OCL?
Yes. My lawyer and i stepped out shortly after the OCL discloure meeting and i told her i will intend on disputing. She agreed that it was one sided. Also didnt agree that it will be left up to the parties after 6 months on what to do. My lawyer feels it will just bring us back to court.
6. Take parenting classes,
I have signed up to an online one (Impulse just to get started) as well as a 4 week certificate in person program also a parenting workshop. I intend on continuing to take the parenting workshops or anything else that can be offered through the service.
7. Change your schedule now, not on the promise of change
Ive spoken with a family memeber who has advised the same. My lawyer thinks that it may look like i have had the oppurtunity to spend more time with my daughter but chosen not to by having my schedule remain the same. Not the case since her mother has kept her from me. My lawyer suggested, which my employer has agreed to, is get a letter of endorsement stating i can change schedule when needed.
Lastly before I head back to work. Become your own advocate, and learn law. Lawyers are expensive and they sometimes complicate things to cost you more money. Drive the matter forward towards your goals.
Seems like the position that i am in now. Her lawyer has been doing well at knit picking every little detail. They continue to go about mental health and appear to try to get me to display signs, which never happens.
Until then Ill have to do everything i can and see what the OCL report says.
Speak to date is may 18.
Well I'm not sure you have or haven't, the forum states you joined in May 2017.
I would just look through the forum as a nonmember and decided to join to get some insight from people with experience.
1. Why are you in supervised access? Was this ordered? or did you volenteer for it.
My ex decided that was going to be the way it was. It was never ordered. My ex used previous issues of anxiety to say im not safe and cant be trusted. I have supporting documents from my family doctor and health clinician stating i am in good health. I did not volunteer for it, I have made my position that i want to be a parent in my daughters life and have held the stance of shared parenting.
2. Are you the applicant (meaning your the moving party) or are you the respondent (didn't do anything about changing things until you were served)
I am the Applicant.
3. What jurisdiction are in? Which court house?
KW. Kitchener court house.
4. Disputing the OCL?
Yes. My lawyer and i stepped out shortly after the OCL discloure meeting and i told her i will intend on disputing. She agreed that it was one sided. Also didnt agree that it will be left up to the parties after 6 months on what to do. My lawyer feels it will just bring us back to court.
6. Take parenting classes,
I have signed up to an online one (Impulse just to get started) as well as a 4 week certificate in person program also a parenting workshop. I intend on continuing to take the parenting workshops or anything else that can be offered through the service.
7. Change your schedule now, not on the promise of change
Ive spoken with a family memeber who has advised the same. My lawyer thinks that it may look like i have had the oppurtunity to spend more time with my daughter but chosen not to by having my schedule remain the same. Not the case since her mother has kept her from me. My lawyer suggested, which my employer has agreed to, is get a letter of endorsement stating i can change schedule when needed.
Lastly before I head back to work. Become your own advocate, and learn law. Lawyers are expensive and they sometimes complicate things to cost you more money. Drive the matter forward towards your goals.
Seems like the position that i am in now. Her lawyer has been doing well at knit picking every little detail. They continue to go about mental health and appear to try to get me to display signs, which never happens.
Until then Ill have to do everything i can and see what the OCL report says.
Speak to date is may 18.
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