Hello everyone,
we have a signed shared joint custody agreement as of last year i was primary for 3 years, 50 / 50, week on week off monday to monday of our daughter of 8 years old.
My ex is giving birth in march and wants to keep our 8 year old home on her weeks. Our daughter would also like that very much.
Im ok with it but need to know is there anything that can happen as her mother has a history of abusing the system.
these are the points i have asked to be addressed.
Since you are talking her out of her regular routine for convenience and financial reasons, these items need to be addressed
1. Switch ***** to a new daycare, which is more physically active and mentally stimulating and has a variety of activities, something ***** has asked for over a year now and you have refused, since she dislikes her current daycare for these reasons.
2. While she is at home and you are taking care of a new born, how are you going to accommodate for these needs mentioned in the first point. reason I ask is obvious, aside from social benefits of a daycare she needs everything above, especially physical activity. If physical activities are not met, she will return to full time daycare.
3. To keep her in routine she will need to be up at 7:00 – 7:30am each day, if not when she returns to my house to go to daycare, this will be extremely hard on her if it’s not followed. If this is not followed she will return to fulltime daycare.
4. If ***** shows discontent with being at your house at any time, or she wishes to return to fulltime daycare, she is to return to full time daycare.
5. There will be no financial change in support or extraordinary expenses as you are choosing to keep her at home and pull her out of her regular daycare routine.
If these points cannot be met it would not be in her best interest to remain at your house and she should go to full time daycare.
please feel free to expand or add any comments
we have a signed shared joint custody agreement as of last year i was primary for 3 years, 50 / 50, week on week off monday to monday of our daughter of 8 years old.
My ex is giving birth in march and wants to keep our 8 year old home on her weeks. Our daughter would also like that very much.
Im ok with it but need to know is there anything that can happen as her mother has a history of abusing the system.
these are the points i have asked to be addressed.
Since you are talking her out of her regular routine for convenience and financial reasons, these items need to be addressed
1. Switch ***** to a new daycare, which is more physically active and mentally stimulating and has a variety of activities, something ***** has asked for over a year now and you have refused, since she dislikes her current daycare for these reasons.
2. While she is at home and you are taking care of a new born, how are you going to accommodate for these needs mentioned in the first point. reason I ask is obvious, aside from social benefits of a daycare she needs everything above, especially physical activity. If physical activities are not met, she will return to full time daycare.
3. To keep her in routine she will need to be up at 7:00 – 7:30am each day, if not when she returns to my house to go to daycare, this will be extremely hard on her if it’s not followed. If this is not followed she will return to fulltime daycare.
4. If ***** shows discontent with being at your house at any time, or she wishes to return to fulltime daycare, she is to return to full time daycare.
5. There will be no financial change in support or extraordinary expenses as you are choosing to keep her at home and pull her out of her regular daycare routine.
If these points cannot be met it would not be in her best interest to remain at your house and she should go to full time daycare.
please feel free to expand or add any comments
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