.. in my case.. with the daycare provider continuing to engage in the whole side taking thing and now insulting me at pickups (with the mother present at daycare when I go to pickup kid) I am trying to get our child from the school directly. The child is not even in daycare after school but rather OP is just using as an exchange point. It's only 2 minutes from OP's house. OP's house is where I drop off the child to at the end of exchanges. It's makes no sense but for OP to be doing this to irritate and annoy me. The pickup time was reduced by her without my consent previously as well. The pickup time is now approximately 2 hours after school let out.
I have indicated to the other parent that I'm not comfortable with the current daycare giver and have numerous times ask to switch daycare givers, asked to provide care as opposed to daycare, and have suggested other caregivers,i.e., before and after school programs at school, etc. Other parent has fired back a nasty angry email that i'm a liying about not being comfortable with daycare and that I must pickup from daycare. There is no order in place that I must pickup from daycare and such an order would never be made. There are CAS allegations between daycare and myself, and a number of nasty confrontations by daycare towards me in presence of the child. All have been documented and some have been mentioned to CAS as they were during investigations. CAS has not seen it themselves and it is basically my word against the daycares. Daycare is quite good a liar like OP and is a single parent herself. Perfect match for each other.
After being called a lier in writing, I received threats that if I don't attend at daycare, then I don't get the visit. I know she can do this but what is the best course for this? Only thing that seems to come to mind is keep trying to sort it out with her or just file an emergency motion to have pickups from school or somewhere mutual - as opposed to somewhere the mother chooses. Daycare provider was unilaterally chosen by OP without consultation and is just a friend to OP with the case - taking sides and calling the CAS. None of the CAS allegations have been substantiated.
I know our child senses the tensions at the exchanges and this is not healthy for her. Must I continue to attend to have exchanges under such hostile setting or best to just not attend? They're consistently trying to start something at every exchange. CAS has seen and documented OP being present at daycare for the exchanges . OP is trying to make this whole claim that child cries and doesn't want to come with me from daycares. The only thing that allegation tells me is that OP is working very hard with daycare to keep my access limited. OP is really good customer of the daycare, and has been giving her business for a number of years now.
daycare is presently not an S7 expense and there is no ongoing request for me to pay anything. It is subsidized but it leads to problems with holidays - that I must pay to get more time (again not in court order - just another OP made law), and of course extreme hostilities among us all. Daycare has previously expressed that she doesn't wish to see me, but this was communicated verbally through the lawyers and was never put in writing.
I have indicated to the other parent that I'm not comfortable with the current daycare giver and have numerous times ask to switch daycare givers, asked to provide care as opposed to daycare, and have suggested other caregivers,i.e., before and after school programs at school, etc. Other parent has fired back a nasty angry email that i'm a liying about not being comfortable with daycare and that I must pickup from daycare. There is no order in place that I must pickup from daycare and such an order would never be made. There are CAS allegations between daycare and myself, and a number of nasty confrontations by daycare towards me in presence of the child. All have been documented and some have been mentioned to CAS as they were during investigations. CAS has not seen it themselves and it is basically my word against the daycares. Daycare is quite good a liar like OP and is a single parent herself. Perfect match for each other.
After being called a lier in writing, I received threats that if I don't attend at daycare, then I don't get the visit. I know she can do this but what is the best course for this? Only thing that seems to come to mind is keep trying to sort it out with her or just file an emergency motion to have pickups from school or somewhere mutual - as opposed to somewhere the mother chooses. Daycare provider was unilaterally chosen by OP without consultation and is just a friend to OP with the case - taking sides and calling the CAS. None of the CAS allegations have been substantiated.
I know our child senses the tensions at the exchanges and this is not healthy for her. Must I continue to attend to have exchanges under such hostile setting or best to just not attend? They're consistently trying to start something at every exchange. CAS has seen and documented OP being present at daycare for the exchanges . OP is trying to make this whole claim that child cries and doesn't want to come with me from daycares. The only thing that allegation tells me is that OP is working very hard with daycare to keep my access limited. OP is really good customer of the daycare, and has been giving her business for a number of years now.
daycare is presently not an S7 expense and there is no ongoing request for me to pay anything. It is subsidized but it leads to problems with holidays - that I must pay to get more time (again not in court order - just another OP made law), and of course extreme hostilities among us all. Daycare has previously expressed that she doesn't wish to see me, but this was communicated verbally through the lawyers and was never put in writing.
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