So settlement this Thursday. Just got the ex’s brief.
He blatantly disagrees with all the OCL recommendations. But added in the few that were in his favour for access times. Lol.
He listed all invoices I ever sent him for 2018. Then put that he paid half of all of them. When our agreement states it should be in proportion to our incomes. They actually quoted agreement but quoted it wrong.
He owes $4300 arrears and his offer to settle offers $0.00
He claimed sole custody, with primary residence. Then joint with week on week off... now he agrees to joint custody with EOW access. And one mid week visit and that he gets to chose which day and if he wants to Take both boys or just one.
I have had sole custody since 2013. No material change in circumstance.
Agreement is vague on Sect 7 and he did pay half of everything up until he moved his gf and 3 kids in his house.
He claims he can only pay $500 total year towards fall/winter activity for two kids. ( he has paid half of hockey for last three years for both kids)
He refuses to pay for summer camp and or spring activity. It’s one or the other.
Limited therapy to $500 a year
$200 year for tutoring
$25 year for orthotics
Refuses to cover any dental or other medical expenses.
Refuses to pay for half of health insurance for the kids, but claims he has benefits and kids are on plan. But he has never offered up his plan info.
I have sent offer to settle that is severable.
He claims I can afford these things myself because I have a partner.
He claims his partner has three children in the household and that their Household income is way lower than mine. Except he isn’t saying his partner choose to work part time. Get support from her ex and gets disability for her oldest child. Yet he hasn’t claimed hardship and wants to know what my partners income is.
He included all sorts of expenses he hasn’t paid for. Saying he did. Just a list.
Like how is a conference judge gonna react to this??
Do I go through brief and refute line for line in court ?
Ocl reccomemdwd caring dads for him. And therapy. He says he will endeavour his best efforts to attend but does not want it ordered.
Ocl said in report he basically is a shitty dad who ignores his kids (in a nicer manner of course) and that the kids have no interest in anymore time than what they have. That they feel below gf’s kids and less important
Oh and that her kids should be at their dads when he had his kids so he can give his kids the attention they deserve.
Ocl said two non consecutive weeks in summer. He is demanding week about
Ocl said he needs to be home for his access and to not levee the kids with partner for extended time. .
I am just baffled at how he can just not even consider ocl recommendations and they were backed up by them speaking to therapists and dr’s for the kids
Keep in mind we have an agreement filed with the courts.
No material change in circumstances. Except of course saying I took away access and alienated the kids from him. No job loss.
Sorry this is all mixed up and out of order. I am just beside myself with the lies bs...
Not sure how to defend myself in court. Even though I have emails and communications to refute all he is saying.
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He blatantly disagrees with all the OCL recommendations. But added in the few that were in his favour for access times. Lol.
He listed all invoices I ever sent him for 2018. Then put that he paid half of all of them. When our agreement states it should be in proportion to our incomes. They actually quoted agreement but quoted it wrong.
He owes $4300 arrears and his offer to settle offers $0.00
He claimed sole custody, with primary residence. Then joint with week on week off... now he agrees to joint custody with EOW access. And one mid week visit and that he gets to chose which day and if he wants to Take both boys or just one.
I have had sole custody since 2013. No material change in circumstance.
Agreement is vague on Sect 7 and he did pay half of everything up until he moved his gf and 3 kids in his house.
He claims he can only pay $500 total year towards fall/winter activity for two kids. ( he has paid half of hockey for last three years for both kids)
He refuses to pay for summer camp and or spring activity. It’s one or the other.
Limited therapy to $500 a year
$200 year for tutoring
$25 year for orthotics
Refuses to cover any dental or other medical expenses.
Refuses to pay for half of health insurance for the kids, but claims he has benefits and kids are on plan. But he has never offered up his plan info.
I have sent offer to settle that is severable.
He claims I can afford these things myself because I have a partner.
He claims his partner has three children in the household and that their Household income is way lower than mine. Except he isn’t saying his partner choose to work part time. Get support from her ex and gets disability for her oldest child. Yet he hasn’t claimed hardship and wants to know what my partners income is.
He included all sorts of expenses he hasn’t paid for. Saying he did. Just a list.
Like how is a conference judge gonna react to this??
Do I go through brief and refute line for line in court ?
Ocl reccomemdwd caring dads for him. And therapy. He says he will endeavour his best efforts to attend but does not want it ordered.
Ocl said in report he basically is a shitty dad who ignores his kids (in a nicer manner of course) and that the kids have no interest in anymore time than what they have. That they feel below gf’s kids and less important
Oh and that her kids should be at their dads when he had his kids so he can give his kids the attention they deserve.
Ocl said two non consecutive weeks in summer. He is demanding week about
Ocl said he needs to be home for his access and to not levee the kids with partner for extended time. .
I am just baffled at how he can just not even consider ocl recommendations and they were backed up by them speaking to therapists and dr’s for the kids
Keep in mind we have an agreement filed with the courts.
No material change in circumstances. Except of course saying I took away access and alienated the kids from him. No job loss.
Sorry this is all mixed up and out of order. I am just beside myself with the lies bs...
Not sure how to defend myself in court. Even though I have emails and communications to refute all he is saying.
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