Hi there,
Newbie here
Just a summary: I have filed a motion to change because ex has been self employed and has not given any financial disclosure despite numerous requests. he owes C.S arreras and is not adjusting ongoing C.S. He has hired a lawyer and our first court date is next week. He was given 30 days to respond and today I hear from a lawyer that he is my ex lawyer and he needs a one week extension to respond.
Like really???? My ex has been doing this for the last one year where we started negotiating and I would give him a deadline and last minute he would make an excuse and push the deadline for later. He did this for one year and finally when we did get to a final agreement , which was basically me giving in to most of his stuff...he just stopped responding.
He basically bought more than a year only to stop me from going to court. so here I am and yet again few days before court he has a lawyer , now asking for another week. ex is out of country and has retained this lawyer.
I know its just a week but this has been the tactics that my ex is using to further delay this matter. I don't want to do that. How can I kindly respond to him and say no thanks, your client has had enough time to prepare and respond and so I am not in agreement to this without looking bad?
Also, I wanted to send him a form 20 with all the info that I have been asking for over a year. Will I have to serve by process server to the lawyer or it can be sent via courier or email to the lawyer?
thanks
Newbie here
Just a summary: I have filed a motion to change because ex has been self employed and has not given any financial disclosure despite numerous requests. he owes C.S arreras and is not adjusting ongoing C.S. He has hired a lawyer and our first court date is next week. He was given 30 days to respond and today I hear from a lawyer that he is my ex lawyer and he needs a one week extension to respond.
Like really???? My ex has been doing this for the last one year where we started negotiating and I would give him a deadline and last minute he would make an excuse and push the deadline for later. He did this for one year and finally when we did get to a final agreement , which was basically me giving in to most of his stuff...he just stopped responding.
He basically bought more than a year only to stop me from going to court. so here I am and yet again few days before court he has a lawyer , now asking for another week. ex is out of country and has retained this lawyer.
I know its just a week but this has been the tactics that my ex is using to further delay this matter. I don't want to do that. How can I kindly respond to him and say no thanks, your client has had enough time to prepare and respond and so I am not in agreement to this without looking bad?
Also, I wanted to send him a form 20 with all the info that I have been asking for over a year. Will I have to serve by process server to the lawyer or it can be sent via courier or email to the lawyer?
thanks
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