I suggest you go on canlii and search for contempt motions. Specific to custody, access and section 7 expenses.
You are also spinning your wheels when you post which is why we say what we do. She will not comply with anything and there is no contempt language you can use. The only thing that can be enforced is money and that is done by you not paying.
For instance:
The parties agree that the following expenses are eligible section 7 expenses for split proportionate to income up to and including the children’s last year of high school. House league hockey, dance, counseling. These expenses are not to exceed $2,400 per year in total for all three children. All expenses must be agreed to in advance in writing otherwise the parent incurring the expense will be responsible for the full value of said expenses.
That isnt great wording but you get the point.
Your ex isn’t going to get sole custody. It won’t happen. Especially if she is claiming it because you won’t let her move away and incur expenses without consent. Take whatever the judges in your conferences and trail management sessions have said.
Your main battle will be over what you have to pay in arrears and what you have to pay going forward. Your end goal is to have an order that clearly lays out what expenses you are responsible for, how they are calculated and what happens if she spends without your consent. Period. Nothing else matters.
Your kids are teens. You don’t need a parenting coordinator. Do some searching on canlii on all the key words in your file and what I said above.
You are also spinning your wheels when you post which is why we say what we do. She will not comply with anything and there is no contempt language you can use. The only thing that can be enforced is money and that is done by you not paying.
For instance:
The parties agree that the following expenses are eligible section 7 expenses for split proportionate to income up to and including the children’s last year of high school. House league hockey, dance, counseling. These expenses are not to exceed $2,400 per year in total for all three children. All expenses must be agreed to in advance in writing otherwise the parent incurring the expense will be responsible for the full value of said expenses.
That isnt great wording but you get the point.
Your ex isn’t going to get sole custody. It won’t happen. Especially if she is claiming it because you won’t let her move away and incur expenses without consent. Take whatever the judges in your conferences and trail management sessions have said.
Your main battle will be over what you have to pay in arrears and what you have to pay going forward. Your end goal is to have an order that clearly lays out what expenses you are responsible for, how they are calculated and what happens if she spends without your consent. Period. Nothing else matters.
Your kids are teens. You don’t need a parenting coordinator. Do some searching on canlii on all the key words in your file and what I said above.
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