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#11
04-07-2020, 09:24 PM
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04-07-2020, 09:27 PM
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Stay safe.
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#13
04-07-2020, 10:35 PM
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In an ideal world, we’d be able to talk to our ex’s without trepidation. However many of us have been through hell which is court and lawyers , often fending off craziness beyond belief.
I fear talking candidly to my ex, knowing she is capable of misconstruing and twisting every word to suit her warped thinking. My ex’s mother is over at my ex’s nearly each day. They are tied at the hip. If I were to mention anything, I know I would be lighting an atomic bomb! I don’t go anywhere beyond my household with kids, but if my ex were to somehow suspect my parents stopped by, she would go apeshit. You can’t fix crazy. My ex thinks she’s never in the wrong, full of double standards, and I’ll never win no matter how right I am, even in court and through a judge. Crazy? My ex wanted to get the OCL worker fired for siding with me. Only advice I can give is that you cannot change crazy and your ex will never see the wrong in her own actions. I wish you luck in your communication and expressing your concern. Sane people would listen and work with you....our exes dismiss and shut conversations down without discussion.
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04-09-2020, 01:10 PM
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Resolved. No lawyers. No court. No mediator.
Children's mother agreed that stricter measures are appropriate with some back and forth and the usual insults. Thanks you for the helpful comments.
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04-10-2020, 01:00 AM
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If my ex thought it would benefit him, he'd say whatever bullshit he wanted about how well he's isolating, regardless of the truth.
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#16
04-10-2020, 08:05 AM
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Until you have lived this it is impossible to understand it fully.
People see the world as they have experienced it. That is the value and the danger of these forums. The two edged sword. Some come here to preach, some to teach, some to be heard. Take what you can and leave the rest. I have benefited greatly from many of the historic posts and also from comments made on mine. Sometimes people just want to blow their own horn and put others down. That's ok. They have their own needs. I have a few rules with my ex that I also teach my kids. Try not to take the bait. Don't be bullied. When they are right they are right, admit it, take your medicine. Always try to be Brief, Informative Fair, Firm, Factual, Friendly. This actually works well in just about all situations. Bullies often back off, or of they push it into court get put in their places. Don't be a bully. Stay safe.
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