Wow, its been a few years since I've been on the forum -- my how time has changed, good to see some old friends still online!
Well, as life would have it -- given time, things do change and i mean CHANGE!
To all the new members -- a word, time is a great healer!
Ok ok ... so hoping the great members on here can help hubby out -- a few questions.
1. My eldest son has been adament to move in with me fulltime, the ex and I and he have sat down and he has been at my residence for over a month fulltime and has no desire to move back with mom. Even after having talked and trying to convince him to go back to the 50/50 custody verbal agreement we have. On a side note, we separated 5 years ago and still NO signed, legal separtion agreement -- it was started but never completed to final signing! I know! Given the situation -- I take it if he lives with me fulltime, I can reduce the custody payments accordingly?
2. With my son living with me fulltime, and custody payments adjusted -- is she still responsible for other expenses such as -- clothing, sports etc or is the responsibility totally on me? Not sure now how the other expenses that were shared 50/50 now are affected?
I appreciate any feedback ... this is NEW territory for me.
Well, as life would have it -- given time, things do change and i mean CHANGE!
To all the new members -- a word, time is a great healer!
Ok ok ... so hoping the great members on here can help hubby out -- a few questions.
1. My eldest son has been adament to move in with me fulltime, the ex and I and he have sat down and he has been at my residence for over a month fulltime and has no desire to move back with mom. Even after having talked and trying to convince him to go back to the 50/50 custody verbal agreement we have. On a side note, we separated 5 years ago and still NO signed, legal separtion agreement -- it was started but never completed to final signing! I know! Given the situation -- I take it if he lives with me fulltime, I can reduce the custody payments accordingly?
2. With my son living with me fulltime, and custody payments adjusted -- is she still responsible for other expenses such as -- clothing, sports etc or is the responsibility totally on me? Not sure now how the other expenses that were shared 50/50 now are affected?
I appreciate any feedback ... this is NEW territory for me.
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