My ex is refusing child support. He is paying my portion of the mortgage costs on the home (the other carrying costs- taxes, bills, etc- we are splitting 50/50). However, he is paying using money I had previously transferred via e-transfers for this reason- I have a statement from the bank showing all the transfers- as well as email correspondence from him stating as such.
We have asked- he and his counsel have been radio silence.
My lawyer says we fight for it all at one time when we seek equalization- and it's best done through mediation/arbitration. We're waiting for the matrimonial home to sell to tie up the proceeds pending equalization.
However, we requested and received further financial disclosure. In that disclosure- my ex has been spending $400-$600 a month at strip clubs and erotic massage parlours. He's using his debit card and credit cards at these establishments.
I mean- it's pretty gross. But I don't know that it's at all relevant to any motions, etc....
What would you do with that information?
We have asked- he and his counsel have been radio silence.
My lawyer says we fight for it all at one time when we seek equalization- and it's best done through mediation/arbitration. We're waiting for the matrimonial home to sell to tie up the proceeds pending equalization.
However, we requested and received further financial disclosure. In that disclosure- my ex has been spending $400-$600 a month at strip clubs and erotic massage parlours. He's using his debit card and credit cards at these establishments.
I mean- it's pretty gross. But I don't know that it's at all relevant to any motions, etc....
What would you do with that information?
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