Originally posted by LovingFather32
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You are at fault... none of these things are necessities, they are wants. If you don't pay then yes your daughter doesn't get to participate, which sucks so you make the decision to pay. You can't force mom to pay for wants but if you can't afford the activities or have to work 6 jobs to do so then yes you are at fault. Not every kid gets to participate in milk day, pizza day, ballet or sparks... some kids don't do anything because their parents simply can't afford it. If you choose (like we do) to pay the full amount so you daughter can participate great, but mom is under no obligation to contribute, especially since it appears you are the one who placed your daughter in these activities.
Trust me, I get what you're saying, your daughter wouldn't participate if you didn't pay, I GET that, my point is if you choose to pay the full amount so your daughter can participate it is partly your fault because mom has no obligation or reason TO pay.
You have an awesome weekend as well!
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