Originally back in 2006, my ex-wife fled the country with our daugher. She forged my signature in order to take her oversease with her new husband in hopes to delete my daughter from my life and start fresh again without me in the picture. After countless hours trying to find where she was with my daughter, numerous lawyers visits and an obsene amount of money in lawyers fees...turns out she was forced to return to Canada and make up the time lossed with my daughter. She basically got a slap on the wrist within the family courts and now it's happening all over again. Accept this time, my ex-wife is trying to do it "legally". I received a letter in the mail today from her lawyer that states that her new husbamd is being forced to take a job in North Carolina and that they will be moving with my daughter in January 2011. My ex-wife makes empty promises to me about seeing my daughter and I am afraid I will never see her again. I am NOT one of those deadbeat father's who refuses to pay his child support. It was actually my choice to make payments throught FRO so that I didn't have to deal with my ex-wife. What if they move with or without my conscent and I never see her again? My daughter is now 12 years old and apparently she has "voice" within the court system now but she's too brain washed and afraid of her mother to use her voice. Is there anything I can do in this situation? My ex-wife has told her lawyer that she is willing to send her on a plane in the summer months to spend time with me.... I know that certainly won't happen...trust me, I know! I have no problem paying the $450.00 child support payment every month but I am also very concerned about losing contact with my daughter and/or the ex-wife and not being able to keep track of whther or not she's still attending school or even living under the same roof as her mother. Those custody payments are said to be stopped if she no longer resides with her mother and/or she finishes her first degree/certificate in school. Our custody agreement is pretty standard (I think)... I had her every other weekend, although, I haven't seen or spoken to my daughter since July 2010... she is suppose to provide me with resonable access to our daughter... if they move and she doesn't send her to me in the summer time or finds an excuse to tell me for example: "she doesn't want to come, she's too busy" that's not reasonable access! What are my options? Can I simply not sign the waiver that allows her to cross the border and leave the country with my daughter? Do I have that option or is that not in my best interest? Can I contact the police and make them aware of the situation and have them contact the borders in our area to have her red flagged when she tries to cross the border with her? She will try, I promise that! I wouldn't put it past her to say she's leaving in January 2011 but actually leave this coming November in order to get away under my nose. I really am stuck here, I don't really know what to do or if I can do anything at all... no one knows what my ex-wife is capable of.... she manipulates the system and everyone in it to get what she wants and what's best for herself, not what's best for our daughter. My wife and I really don't have the money to allow this to drag in court. We are already in debt because of her crap the last time she fled the country!
A Dad in need of some answers.
A Dad in need of some answers.
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