So at the moment our son is with me 99% of the time and although I love him, I think it would be in his best interest to spend more time with his father. I must admit that when we were still married, I did nag him about putting in more effort to develop his relationship with S7. That obviously fell on deaf ears and here we are.
Anyway.. I'd like some suggestions on how to approach my ex about spending more time with S7. At the moment, he gives excuses as to why he cannot. Ie. He can't afford a babysitter, his work schedule is unpredictable, he doesn't live close enough to the school/daycare etc..
I just want to know if anybody has any suggetions as to how I can counter his arguments and stress how important this is. My ex isn't bad guy; just selfish and has no idea when it comes to kids. And before you jump on me for calling him selfish; understand that I have told him this numerous times and he knows the truth of it.
Well, any help is appreciated. Thanks.
Anyway.. I'd like some suggestions on how to approach my ex about spending more time with S7. At the moment, he gives excuses as to why he cannot. Ie. He can't afford a babysitter, his work schedule is unpredictable, he doesn't live close enough to the school/daycare etc..
I just want to know if anybody has any suggetions as to how I can counter his arguments and stress how important this is. My ex isn't bad guy; just selfish and has no idea when it comes to kids. And before you jump on me for calling him selfish; understand that I have told him this numerous times and he knows the truth of it.
Well, any help is appreciated. Thanks.
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