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Old 12-02-2021, 09:50 PM
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If she doesnt file..we will...its all to do with the health plan arrangements
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Old 12-02-2021, 09:55 PM
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Shes not his spouse so he can remove her from his benefits.
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Old 12-02-2021, 10:05 PM
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Default its in the agreement...

that he keeps her on the health plan til they are divorced, at which time she has to provide her own health plan.
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Old 12-02-2021, 10:57 PM
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You are getting wrapped up over nothing, don't spend a dime on a lawyer for February then think about it.
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Old 12-03-2021, 09:42 AM
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Prob just going to wait it out...more along the lines of...I have my own health plan..which I was able to add him to..he wants me on his...as better coverage...but certainly no huge rush..
But in the seperation final agreement, part of the support he is paying is so that she can get her own health plan upon divorce....so thats partly why we want it done.
But again, in grand scheme of things, not a big deal, I just like input!
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Old 12-03-2021, 09:50 AM
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Well if it says she files for divorce and she doesnt then he can take her off his benefits and say he doesnt have to follow the agreement either. Let her take him to court for contempt which wont happen.

Plus if she doesnt file by the date, file himself and get it done.
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Old 12-03-2021, 10:59 AM
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What a thread. To recap, the court order says that ex is supposed to file for divorce by December 31, 2021 and has no intention of doing it by that date. Other spouse wants her to do it and is wondering what the recourse is for them not doing it.

Again, to repeat myself, MANY court orders contain stuff that is hard to enforce and there is no recourse if it is not done. Some court orders will say that parents are to give eachother advanced notice of doctor/dentist appointments and then complain that the other spouse sends a text as notice while sitting in the waiting room. Recourse? Zilch.

Unless you NEED to get divorced asap because you are getting remarried in January, there is zero urgency. None. Having your ex on your benefits a little longer does nothing. Consider it a parting gift. This is not the type of issue that would see the light of day in court. Your ex can claim she simply doesn't have the $650 as they are focusing on Christmas. If you want to get divorced that badly, file it yourself. Otherwise, you'll have to wait until they get around to it.
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Old 12-03-2021, 11:52 PM
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for their thoughts and the summing up of it.

I even stated no urgency, so glad it was repeated.

We will just take a wait and see approach...no remarriage planned at this time..
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