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Wow thanks for so many replies.... I am a bit confused about some of them
1) I left with the baby to stay with relatives so I wouldn't be yelled at/talked down to/ forced to go out with the baby ( I was still recovering from childbirth and my wound was painful) and the baby wouldn't have to live through toxic environment ...my ex had some drinking problem too.... He would come home scream at me for the smallest thing just because he was drunk. But as he was forcing me to go home with threats, I was afraid and decided not to eventually. The nurse who followed me recommended shelter etc as soon as she saw my situation before I left home.
2) nope I don't have any new relationship , neither was it the reason I left. I do however hope one day my little baby will have a good make role model- either his dad steps up or I find someone.
3) I never denied his access, but he was very difficult with any set of schedules that I suggested, and was denying the fact that we need to make schedule because he claimed that I had no custody so I had no right to make schedule, however he never suggested any schedule in any way.
4) CS - I am sure the court will decide and I am not worried. Just the fact that he shows no interest in the baby that makes me sad.
5) you are all right about not worrying about what's going on when he is with the baby. However I am hoping someone can share the experience of " ex becoming less hostile as the time goes by?" Type of story? Or does it truly exist?
Wow thanks for so many replies.... I am a bit confused about some of them
1) I left with the baby to stay with relatives so I wouldn't be yelled at/talked down to/ forced to go out with the baby ( I was still recovering from childbirth and my wound was painful) and the baby wouldn't have to live through toxic environment ...my ex had some drinking problem too.... He would come home scream at me for the smallest thing just because he was drunk. But as he was forcing me to go home with threats, I was afraid and decided not to eventually. The nurse who followed me recommended shelter etc as soon as she saw my situation before I left home.
2) nope I don't have any new relationship , neither was it the reason I left. I do however hope one day my little baby will have a good make role model- either his dad steps up or I find someone.
3) I never denied his access, but he was very difficult with any set of schedules that I suggested, and was denying the fact that we need to make schedule because he claimed that I had no custody so I had no right to make schedule, however he never suggested any schedule in any way.
4) CS - I am sure the court will decide and I am not worried. Just the fact that he shows no interest in the baby that makes me sad.
5) you are all right about not worrying about what's going on when he is with the baby. However I am hoping someone can share the experience of " ex becoming less hostile as the time goes by?" Type of story? Or does it truly exist?
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