We separated on June of 2010 and in September she had me arrested for spousal assault which never took place. The police concluded she was a liar and on the advice of police and my lawyer I moved in with family.
We have since agreed on joint custody and 50/50 access and she is living in the marital home until it sells. She changed the locks on the home and moved her boyfriend into the home and never lets me in to retrieve any of my things. I am afraid to go near this woman without police present as she will lie to them to get me in trouble.
We agreed at the case conference that both our pays would be direct deposited into the joint account and that she would be responsible for paying the bills.....bad idea to say the least. I have had to make every single payment to joint credit cards and lines of credit and I have had to pay almost every single other bill payment. I have even had to borrow money to ensure that the mortgage payment is covered. I have to protect my credit rating but at the same time she is not helping at all.
This month I have payed the full mortgage, daycare, lines of credit, phone cable and internet.
Basically I am working to support her and the boyfriend living in my home....when I have the kids I am left with little money to do anything with them let alone pay for groceries.
At the case conference we agreed in writing that the matrimonial home would be up for sale by December 1st....the home was not listed until January 6th. She has delayed the sale of the home and run up my costs and it seems there is nothing I can do about it.
I have contacted my lawyer this morning to ask what my recourse is but was wondering if anyone has been in a situation where the joint bills are not being paid.
We have since agreed on joint custody and 50/50 access and she is living in the marital home until it sells. She changed the locks on the home and moved her boyfriend into the home and never lets me in to retrieve any of my things. I am afraid to go near this woman without police present as she will lie to them to get me in trouble.
We agreed at the case conference that both our pays would be direct deposited into the joint account and that she would be responsible for paying the bills.....bad idea to say the least. I have had to make every single payment to joint credit cards and lines of credit and I have had to pay almost every single other bill payment. I have even had to borrow money to ensure that the mortgage payment is covered. I have to protect my credit rating but at the same time she is not helping at all.
This month I have payed the full mortgage, daycare, lines of credit, phone cable and internet.
Basically I am working to support her and the boyfriend living in my home....when I have the kids I am left with little money to do anything with them let alone pay for groceries.
At the case conference we agreed in writing that the matrimonial home would be up for sale by December 1st....the home was not listed until January 6th. She has delayed the sale of the home and run up my costs and it seems there is nothing I can do about it.
I have contacted my lawyer this morning to ask what my recourse is but was wondering if anyone has been in a situation where the joint bills are not being paid.
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