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Old 05-14-2017, 05:49 PM
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LF32, I suspect Trinton's post may be the straw that broke the camel's back. His words and intent did not compliment each other. His best wishes should have been just that, but they weren't. Had it been left at HMD, I doubt he would have received these responses. But he chose to make the post about himself. You added to the responders frustrations by doing the same thing. Unfortunately, Trinton is so (rightfully/understandably) bitter right now, a simple HMD post turned into something else. There are times the bitterness needs to be turned off.
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Old 05-14-2017, 05:57 PM
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I would like to think Trinton and LF had good intentions with their Mothers Day effort

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I can't speak for trinton but mine were all good...so if you'd like to think that they were good.. do it, because it's correct. Why would my intentions for loving my mother and partner as a mother ... and wanting to spoil them be bad?
I could speak for my self... how could ANYONE's intentions for encouraging and facilitating for their daughter to be with their mom for mother's day weekend be possibly bad? It doesn't matter, I won't be wishing a happy mother's day on this forum anymore now that I know how they perceive these wishes when they come from separated dad's. It's actually quite disturbing to me that they think this to be the case.
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Old 05-14-2017, 06:01 PM
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It speaks volumes about your characters that after all of this, you both feel as though there was nothing wrong with your approach, and are acting as though a great injustice has been commited.
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Old 05-14-2017, 06:05 PM
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If you have to brag about how you are taking the high road, you are not, in fact, taking the high road.
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Old 05-14-2017, 06:08 PM
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If you have to brag about how you are taking the high road, you are not, in fact, taking the high road.
So you are suggesting that I should have kept the entire weekend and not offered her anytime for mother's day because she is in technically in contempt of our court order and owing me a long weekend - that would have been the high road, right - to hold mother's day hostage of time being owed.
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Old 05-14-2017, 06:32 PM
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My God get over yourselves....

I said happy mothers day and was proud of what I was doing. I can say more than HMD if I want ... it doesn't mean I'm bragging....and somehow "not" taking some kind of high road? Huh? I'm trying to figure out if this is just some kind of prank .. or if you're projecting Trinton recent hostility to me because I simply posted here.

I told my mom what I did for my g/f....I told my g/f what I did for my mom....hey I even told my buddy today what I did and he also told me what he did. So that's taking a low road, bragging...or whatever other rubbish posters seem to be writing today? Please? Get a hold of yourselves.

I'm allowed to be proud of treating the mothers in my life good. It's sad what some must be going through to be able to turn it around and make such a positive thing .. so negative. Makes me lose faith in humanity. Cheer up folks. I shared my mother's day with you ... that's all.

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Old 05-14-2017, 06:47 PM
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She believed that the day's sentiment was being sacrificed at the expense of greed and profit. In 1923 she filed a lawsuit to stop a Mother's Day festival, and was even arrested for disturbing the peace at a convention selling carnations for a war mother's group. Before her death in 1948, Jarvis is said to have confessed that she regretted ever starting the mother's day tradition.
Similarly I regret ever having posted this thread. This is turning into soap opera now and all about greed and profit - if you mention yourself in your mother's day thread then it's not acceptable and an insult . Mod's please close. I apologize for any inconvenience.

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It speaks volumes about your characters that after all of this, you both feel as though there was nothing wrong with your approach, and are acting as though a great injustice has been commited.
Can you point to anywhere in my initial post in this thread where I speak of injustice?

Also, whether my "approach" in my past relationship was or wasn't the right one (I did the best I could) isn't relevant to today's sharing's of mothers day. I personally think it's disgusting that you're digging the bottom of the barrel to attack my character for sharing my mothers day experience. Pretty grotesque stuff. (Talk about speaking volumes of charter .. yikes).
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Many are doing what they preach not to do on other threads. This was a total trolling fest Trinton ... they're pissed at you because you write like you're pissed at women.

This has nothing to do with mothers day...it's a revenge thing. They derailed and attacked. Just roll with it. They complain about this in other threads and come and do it themselves. This didn't deserve eye rolling and unnecessary, negative, false interpretations. It was a happy mothers day post for god sakes. You could be the biggest gentlemen in the world and they will turn you into a monster somehow. Just how these forums go sometimes.


Soiled .. I'm saying I was simply proud of the mothers in my life and what I planned and did for them. Why keep stopping by and challenging that? Do you really have nothing better to do? Is that where your life is at? Furthermore, were you not the one who kept yelling for me to not "beat a dead horse" and to stop posting in other threads? Well nothing you're saying here is correct .. in fact it's quite disturbing. So take your own beautiful advice and stop beating a dead horse .. take a hike.

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Old 05-14-2017, 07:07 PM
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Many are doing what they preach not to do on other threads. This was a total trolling fest Trinton ... they're pissed at you because you write like you're pissed at women.

This has nothing to do with mothers day...it's a revenge thing. They derailed and attacked. Just roll with it. They complain about this in other threads and come and do to themselves. This didn't deserve eye rolling and unnecessary, negative, false interpretations. It was a happy mothers day post for god sakes. You could be the biggest gentlemen in the world and they will turn you into a monster somehow. Just how these forums go sometimes.
I realize that. But I have very clearly stated before that:

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there are very pleasant single moms out there
I don't understand how I am referring to them when I mention my former partner. Don't we come onto this site to talk about our former partners and the difficulties that we encounter with them and the best ways to deal with them? Are we not all in this together? Did we not all have to go through and deal with a separation? Yes, a separation is indeed one of the worst things a human will experience in their life time. And seems instead of supporting one another we are all attacking one another. No where in my initial post did I liken my ex with the mother's on here - matter of fact and quite the contrary, many of them have been very helpful to me and I have wished them ALL a happy mother's day. I'm starting to think it's because I talked about my former spouse in this happy mother's day thread, however, I simply don't understand why they like to or would want to liken themselves with my former spouse - especially if they are nothing like her.
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