My ex is remarried with two new children from that marriage.
I am single with only the one child from her and mine preveious relationship.
Our common son is the eldest at 7 years of age, her two new boys are 3 and 1. She has him the majority of the time and I have access eow and tuesdays overnight.
I've just emailed her as after some soul searching as I've decided that as much it will be a hearrt-ache to me, moving forward it is probably best for our mutual son (and her new kids too, for that fact) that he spend Christmas morning with them every year.
This is contrary to the Order, not that I imagine she'll possibly object.
Mind you, she has amazed me in the past... lol
Anyways, I just wanted to ask how people feel about this decision of mine?
Is it really better for the child? Or, am I off on my thinking?
I am single with only the one child from her and mine preveious relationship.
Our common son is the eldest at 7 years of age, her two new boys are 3 and 1. She has him the majority of the time and I have access eow and tuesdays overnight.
I've just emailed her as after some soul searching as I've decided that as much it will be a hearrt-ache to me, moving forward it is probably best for our mutual son (and her new kids too, for that fact) that he spend Christmas morning with them every year.
This is contrary to the Order, not that I imagine she'll possibly object.
Mind you, she has amazed me in the past... lol
Anyways, I just wanted to ask how people feel about this decision of mine?
Is it really better for the child? Or, am I off on my thinking?
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