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I guess the big questions are:
1. What is the current parenting schedule? 2. Who moved to cause the 4 hour distance (likely less relevant now, but still may be a point to mull over)? 3. Why was the fathers parenting time supervised? 4. Why was the fathers parenting time limited to only to hours? If due to nursing, when did it become overnights? It is in the child's best interests to have both parents involved in the child's live. Just because there is a new Beau, doesn't make that person a part of the child. It is best for the child to know both sides of themselves. The maximum contact rule is there to promote that. But that said, maximum contact 4 hours away from each other is unlikely going to be 50/50 split. The EOW, a few weeks in the summer, long weekends and every other march break will likely be the norm, unless the parents live substantially closer. You seem to suggest the new partner will fill the role of the father. I disagree. They will add to the child's life, but the child will only ever have 1 father. And the relationship a child has with either of their parents is equally important. And as for the gas dripping at the kids feet....umm, my ex is a Child Protection Worker. She's been around a lot of complaints, but I bet she wouldn't care about that. Had the child drank some or the father poured it on the child intentionally, you may have a case. But I think I spilled some gas near my kid filling the lawnmower last year......it happens. |
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You apparently want your child to grow up feeling that their biological father didn't give a shit about them and abandoned them. When this is not true, the bio dad wants to have a relationship. But having a relationship isn't in your plans. You want to have a fantasy life where the bio dad doesn't exist, because that is what YOU want for YOU. Bio dad is inconvenient for you, so bio dad shall cease to exist. I'm sure your child will thank you for efforts to build walls between him and his dad. Quote:
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You shouldn't be asking the other parent to "visit" their child too... You should be requesting they *parent* their child as well. Quote:
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Very agressive to do a joint filing potentially. Family law is a matter of perception and honestly, you are not projecting well on this site. Quote:
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Put that argument forward. I encourage you to for the benefit of the other parent and not your own argument. I am very doubtful form this and other comments you have made that you are being honest with this community on your position at all. I suspect that access denials have been a significant issues and why the matter is now before the courts. Quote:
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Good Luck! Tayken |
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