Originally posted by iona6656
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- go visit for themselves, and not to please mom
- tell mom when there is something they don't like or don't want to talk about something
- stand up for themselves and not be bullied around.
This has helped them tremendously. But they find it difficult. However they'll have to deal with their mom for the rest of their life so they might as well get used to it.
It helped, but the kids are still walking on eggshells with their mom. And they are afraid of her but they forget fast... a few days of "hey mom seems to be doing great" and it's mostly forgotten... but the fear remains and it comes back fast. My youngest one was sick and I had to pick him up at school. He told me "I was afraid they would call mom!" when I picked him up.
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