My d11 has been diagnosed as having PTSD from my ex taking his personal belongings and leaving while the kids and I were away over night. Ex left a note explaining why our 12 year marriage was over and d11 found it and read it before I even knew it existed. We were all very blindsided.
My question is, the family doctor says my daughter should not be going to visits with her Dad as it is too stressful. Her Dad is pretty clueless when it comes to emotional issues but in the grand scheme of things, is a decent father. He has a hard time understanding D11's struggles and says she should "just move on".....D11 does not want to go on visitation.
D11 is in therapy which will include "reconcilliation counselling" with her Dad when appropriate. He is willing to attend with her.
Lawyer said that it is possible D11 is just trying to use it as a power play and that I need to send D11 on visitation.
Follow the doc's recommendation or the lawyer? D11 does not want to go. To complicate matters, ex is a 4rth year resident physician himself.
Thanks.
My question is, the family doctor says my daughter should not be going to visits with her Dad as it is too stressful. Her Dad is pretty clueless when it comes to emotional issues but in the grand scheme of things, is a decent father. He has a hard time understanding D11's struggles and says she should "just move on".....D11 does not want to go on visitation.
D11 is in therapy which will include "reconcilliation counselling" with her Dad when appropriate. He is willing to attend with her.
Lawyer said that it is possible D11 is just trying to use it as a power play and that I need to send D11 on visitation.
Follow the doc's recommendation or the lawyer? D11 does not want to go. To complicate matters, ex is a 4rth year resident physician himself.
Thanks.
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