As a step parent, I have had to submit to invasive, private and confidential probing: police record checks (as the mother stated I had a criminal record - which I do not and has been proved), a letter from my doctor concerning my mental stability (another issue brought about by the mother), one interview in my home, where the OCL Investigator spoke in a harsh tone, ridiculed my involvement in the children's life and how I had been communicating the issues we'd seen with regard to lack of care for the children involved and then another meeting (which I had my lawyer attend) to discuss the findings (or lack thereof) from my police record checks, where the OCL worker was sweet as pie.
Now we are a day away from the Disclosure Meeting and the OCL Investigator and oppositions Legal Representation are stating that, as I am not a party to this court case and as such I am not permitted to attend.
Share with me your thoughts, experiences and if you have any reference to materials that might be of assistance in this, your help would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you all in advance. Please ONLY PRIVATE MESSAGE me, as I am still being watched! Hello FANS
Now we are a day away from the Disclosure Meeting and the OCL Investigator and oppositions Legal Representation are stating that, as I am not a party to this court case and as such I am not permitted to attend.
Share with me your thoughts, experiences and if you have any reference to materials that might be of assistance in this, your help would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you all in advance. Please ONLY PRIVATE MESSAGE me, as I am still being watched! Hello FANS
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