My boyfriends ex is trying to sue him for an extreme amount of money. I need to know what rights he has and how far she can go with it. It started years ago when they became separated and she had the children. He was paying over a grand a month which he paid faithfully.
The oldest, 16 at the time, moved in with her parents, because she made his father out to be evil. She was still getting the $1000+ a month and telling her parents that he (her ex and my now boyfriend) wasn't paying her anything. When a confrontation happened between him (my boyfriend) and her parents, he told them that she was still getting his money and he showed the receipts.
Then the 2nd oldest turned legal age and the 2nd youngest came to live with him; he's been here with him since 2008. She has absolutely nothing to do with the 2nd youngest, and hasnt since he moved back with his father. She still has the youngest who comes with him every weekend and for summer vacation from school.
The company he worked for moved to the states in 2007 and he lost his job there. When his 2nd oldest moved in with him and he tried to get the child support from her for him, she backed off and never heard a thing for the last 3 years; now he turned legal age back in the spring and voila, she's back trying to sue him again.
He must have some rights. What can he (or we) do? I say "we" because I refuse to marry him as I am scared she will somehow try to use my income to her advantage too. I am a nurse working for the government, with 2 children of my own. (My ex and i have separated on friendlier terms than my boyfriend and his ex; we made our agreements verbally before we even went to our lawyer, and we can sit and discuss anything about our children at any given time.) I refuse to allow this gold digger (his ex) to touch my income. Any suggestions????
The oldest, 16 at the time, moved in with her parents, because she made his father out to be evil. She was still getting the $1000+ a month and telling her parents that he (her ex and my now boyfriend) wasn't paying her anything. When a confrontation happened between him (my boyfriend) and her parents, he told them that she was still getting his money and he showed the receipts.
Then the 2nd oldest turned legal age and the 2nd youngest came to live with him; he's been here with him since 2008. She has absolutely nothing to do with the 2nd youngest, and hasnt since he moved back with his father. She still has the youngest who comes with him every weekend and for summer vacation from school.
The company he worked for moved to the states in 2007 and he lost his job there. When his 2nd oldest moved in with him and he tried to get the child support from her for him, she backed off and never heard a thing for the last 3 years; now he turned legal age back in the spring and voila, she's back trying to sue him again.
He must have some rights. What can he (or we) do? I say "we" because I refuse to marry him as I am scared she will somehow try to use my income to her advantage too. I am a nurse working for the government, with 2 children of my own. (My ex and i have separated on friendlier terms than my boyfriend and his ex; we made our agreements verbally before we even went to our lawyer, and we can sit and discuss anything about our children at any given time.) I refuse to allow this gold digger (his ex) to touch my income. Any suggestions????
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