My ex has refused to pay any child support for over a year. He is also ignoring the FRO. They informed me they were taking action. First his license, which I phoned the FRO and said I felt this was silly, as how is he suppose to get to work with no license and I requested they garnish his wages. They said he was not communicating and unless I knew where he worked, they did not. He has ignored all FRO letters and calls for over 1yr. They are not very happy with him at all, and the case worker told me that he is very frustrated with "another jerk".
I could not tell the FRO he work, as I have no idea where he works, and he has not provided the court ordered income tax return for the last 4 years. He completely ignores the court order, but I do not want to rock the boat as he can get very violent. (he has broken my windows, slashed my tires, hit me with the car...the police always give him warnings, as he has relations on the force.....so I really like to lay low and keep things happy...he is really mad at me for the past yr since the FRO started pushing him).
I do know he is working as when he constantly cancels his visitation he reasoning is "I have to work".
So...now the case worker has informed me that they ordered him to court and he did not show up 3 dates 3 no shows, so they are going to have him arrested and jailed.
My child is suppose to visit every second Sunday. The court lawyer said I would be responsible for taking my 7 yr old to see her father, as it is important she keeps ties to her biological father.....
But I am struggling to understand how seeing and visiting your father in jail, is in the best interest of the child????
I would appreciate any input or opinions here, as I try to wrap my mind around this....
Thank you so much everyone.
I could not tell the FRO he work, as I have no idea where he works, and he has not provided the court ordered income tax return for the last 4 years. He completely ignores the court order, but I do not want to rock the boat as he can get very violent. (he has broken my windows, slashed my tires, hit me with the car...the police always give him warnings, as he has relations on the force.....so I really like to lay low and keep things happy...he is really mad at me for the past yr since the FRO started pushing him).
I do know he is working as when he constantly cancels his visitation he reasoning is "I have to work".
So...now the case worker has informed me that they ordered him to court and he did not show up 3 dates 3 no shows, so they are going to have him arrested and jailed.
My child is suppose to visit every second Sunday. The court lawyer said I would be responsible for taking my 7 yr old to see her father, as it is important she keeps ties to her biological father.....
But I am struggling to understand how seeing and visiting your father in jail, is in the best interest of the child????
I would appreciate any input or opinions here, as I try to wrap my mind around this....
Thank you so much everyone.
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