I wanted to ask others who dealt with SS what their experience was with the process (what is the norm??) Is backdating of an interim SS order ever heard of or does that always get dealt with at the final order? (It does assume our file will end up in court?) I admit I made the mistake of assuming but I am in a serious hurt and I have been caught offguard in a huge way.....
Tommorow was the 4th attempt, put off again, this time because ex chose to throw in a no/nothing offer in two days before the SS motion and this time my lawyer was not able to deal with it in time...... told it now is a costs game and "forces" us to put one out before we have proper disclosure and I get the last of the verification of various banking for one.
If I were to ask a question, do the judges easily see through really ridiculous offer to settle attempts?? It would be given but what is being declared in our court docs now, the offer to settle is one page, deals with nothing (she walks away), under 1/2 low range table amount, oh and I don't make enough on CPP so the suggestion is to just have me pay NEAR 5 times the cs table amount for the last two older kids (yes they are mostly self supporting, have been for a while, but there is 1 year and 2 for the other left to finish post secondary). Just a shame, waste of paper and money??
Tommorow was the 4th attempt, put off again, this time because ex chose to throw in a no/nothing offer in two days before the SS motion and this time my lawyer was not able to deal with it in time...... told it now is a costs game and "forces" us to put one out before we have proper disclosure and I get the last of the verification of various banking for one.
If I were to ask a question, do the judges easily see through really ridiculous offer to settle attempts?? It would be given but what is being declared in our court docs now, the offer to settle is one page, deals with nothing (she walks away), under 1/2 low range table amount, oh and I don't make enough on CPP so the suggestion is to just have me pay NEAR 5 times the cs table amount for the last two older kids (yes they are mostly self supporting, have been for a while, but there is 1 year and 2 for the other left to finish post secondary). Just a shame, waste of paper and money??
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