Hello again,
Hate to ask about things like this but I have no choice.
A parent demands a child to do something while the child is with the other parent. This demand is causing the kid anxiety if it's not done. Asked why, the kid said: "I am afraid xxxxxxxxx is gonna be mad and scream at me".
This "rule" has never been discussed or even mentioned to the other parent.
The child was told: this is what you must do going forward. When opposed by the other parent, they wrote: I have my rules and the child must follow these rules (paraphrasing).start respecting my rules. period no if or but. The highlighted is the exact quote from this correspondence.
Should the other parent follow the first parent's rules?
Thank you
Hate to ask about things like this but I have no choice.
A parent demands a child to do something while the child is with the other parent. This demand is causing the kid anxiety if it's not done. Asked why, the kid said: "I am afraid xxxxxxxxx is gonna be mad and scream at me".
This "rule" has never been discussed or even mentioned to the other parent.
The child was told: this is what you must do going forward. When opposed by the other parent, they wrote: I have my rules and the child must follow these rules (paraphrasing).start respecting my rules. period no if or but. The highlighted is the exact quote from this correspondence.
Should the other parent follow the first parent's rules?
Thank you
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