Dear friends,
I need your help.
"The parties recognize it may be appropriate to modify the access arrangements in the event of changes such as the children being older and able to travel independently, the parties living closer together, or one party having a vehicle. In the event of a change that makes mid-week accessor a change to the pick up and drop-off arrangements possible, the parties will review the access personally, through their representatives or with the assistance of a mediator."
This is the last clause in our draft Final Order. We have a high-conflict case and do not communicate with each other .
The order drafted is very, very specific in access details....who does what/where/when/how.
I find this very last clause confusing and a possible source of future endless conflicts. At the same time, I understand that change is inevitable.
MY situation as of today:
- I am the CP. I have a car. I drop the kids at an agreed upon location.
- The kids are 6 and 8.
- Mid-week access has never been discussed or requested.
Midweek access is not even stipulated in this Draft final order enclosing the above as very last clause.
How would you re-write this to minimize future conflicts?
Many thanks,
Inlimbo.
I need your help.
"The parties recognize it may be appropriate to modify the access arrangements in the event of changes such as the children being older and able to travel independently, the parties living closer together, or one party having a vehicle. In the event of a change that makes mid-week accessor a change to the pick up and drop-off arrangements possible, the parties will review the access personally, through their representatives or with the assistance of a mediator."
This is the last clause in our draft Final Order. We have a high-conflict case and do not communicate with each other .
The order drafted is very, very specific in access details....who does what/where/when/how.
I find this very last clause confusing and a possible source of future endless conflicts. At the same time, I understand that change is inevitable.
MY situation as of today:
- I am the CP. I have a car. I drop the kids at an agreed upon location.
- The kids are 6 and 8.
- Mid-week access has never been discussed or requested.
Midweek access is not even stipulated in this Draft final order enclosing the above as very last clause.
How would you re-write this to minimize future conflicts?
Many thanks,
Inlimbo.
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