So went in to try and get an initial access schedule with 11 yo. Based on STBX lawyers assertions that 11 year old does not want to speak to me, he ordered an application to the OCL and nothing more. Told my lawyer we could “take our chances with a motion”...and that the “OCL will be able to identify any alienation that’s occurring.” Both counsel just went to chambers for 15 minutes and that’s it. Justice Douglas Grey, Milton court...
I know he could order anything not on consent, but feel a definite deflating inside. I am aware of the concerns re OCL but at least now I have a court order that forces her to have the kids speak to a clinician.
On a separate note, is it reasonable for me to say that my 11 yo needs to call me if she expects me to pay for her summer camp? I feel like I’m enabling her disrespect and abusive language if I do...
I know he could order anything not on consent, but feel a definite deflating inside. I am aware of the concerns re OCL but at least now I have a court order that forces her to have the kids speak to a clinician.
On a separate note, is it reasonable for me to say that my 11 yo needs to call me if she expects me to pay for her summer camp? I feel like I’m enabling her disrespect and abusive language if I do...
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