Has it ever been a case where the judge has ordered parallel parenting in a case where there has been domestic violence?
I understand that parallel parenting is something that can be considered in high conflict cases, but what if the ex has never made any decisions pertaining to our child's medical, dental, religious, social activities, education and has left it all to me to do throughout our child's life.
I worry that it will cause a nightmare for our daughter, he does not get involved in any decision (i.e. in the past 2 years post separation, and also since when she was born,). e.g. her medical and health - he took her off, her activities - he doens't pay for any of them and when it's his day, he considers it "encroaching on his time", her education - he has no interest in her homework, projects etc, and has not contributed to our agreed RESP for her, recently her Orthodontist bill - he refused to help, her camp fees - won't help pay etc...and the list goes on.
Can he still pull that out of his hat and ask for "parallel parenting" ? I'm asking for sole legal and physical custody of our child, because he has never made or shown any interest in making decisions or doing what is needed for our child's welfare and needs He still owes me 2 years worth of dental, extra cirricular fees etc....
He is very controlling towards our child and still aggressive towards me, and I just think that this will be absolutely horrible. Any thoughts ?
I understand that parallel parenting is something that can be considered in high conflict cases, but what if the ex has never made any decisions pertaining to our child's medical, dental, religious, social activities, education and has left it all to me to do throughout our child's life.
I worry that it will cause a nightmare for our daughter, he does not get involved in any decision (i.e. in the past 2 years post separation, and also since when she was born,). e.g. her medical and health - he took her off, her activities - he doens't pay for any of them and when it's his day, he considers it "encroaching on his time", her education - he has no interest in her homework, projects etc, and has not contributed to our agreed RESP for her, recently her Orthodontist bill - he refused to help, her camp fees - won't help pay etc...and the list goes on.
Can he still pull that out of his hat and ask for "parallel parenting" ? I'm asking for sole legal and physical custody of our child, because he has never made or shown any interest in making decisions or doing what is needed for our child's welfare and needs He still owes me 2 years worth of dental, extra cirricular fees etc....
He is very controlling towards our child and still aggressive towards me, and I just think that this will be absolutely horrible. Any thoughts ?
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