Going to say this ahead of the time, sorry about the bad english I am a little upset right now. My soon to be ex has changed her demands yet again! She is only claiming that she has 500 dollars worth of household goods and her lawyer is using a bedroom suite , that I got after she left. that I am still renting as part of marriage. Becasue of this she is asking me to pay her a 500 dollar equalization payment. Thing is I have proof that she is not claiming everything that she has. She has also refused to come get her stuff that I have been storing at my home. Her lawyer has also stated that all the debts that I have been paying off from a orderly payment of debt were before the marriage. Thing is, I was not living in Canada before the marriage and the debts I was paying off are from Saskatchewan. I have proof of this and can even prove when i came into Canada with my immgration papers. Based on that she claims that a lien that was placed on me and here was only worth 600 dollars and is willing to only accept 300 dollars as her part. Thing is I have proof that the lien was 1500 dollars. I have since paid off my OPD, as she didn't pay one penny on any of the debts, even the lien. She is also asking that I pay her 415 dollars a month for 7 years for spousal support. I haven't paid her one dime in almost a year, she keeps changing her request for spousal support, at one time, she asked for spousal support to go back to school and wanted me to pay for it. She is also asking for half my pension( I know already that I going to lose this) and any interest that has accured since seperation. She has refused to return the cell phone which I paid for and stuck me with the contract for the cell phone. She has refused to pay any part of the bill. She claims via an emial that he phone was dropped in the toilet and now doesn't work.
Given all this, I have decided to go to pretrial as I am tried of the games she is playing. Thing is with all this proof, how do I go about showing the judge that she has misstated things, has flat out lied, and all she wants is money. I do have a lawyer, but I am concern that my lawyer wants only to take the easy way out and not fight. Does anyone any advice or suggestions that can be of help. It should also be noted that her legal aid lawyer has been dragging their feet on their responses. They asked for infomation back on the first of June and stated they would have a reply back on June 22. They finally gave a letter state what I said above three weeks late. Thing is she has been dragging this out with her legal aid lawyer while I have to pay a lawyer.
Again, any advice/suggestions would be welcome.
I should also state that my ex wrote a Dear Howard letter saying that she was leaving because of the ADHD and knew that it would going to be hard for her to be on her own, but she was going to make it.
Given all this, I have decided to go to pretrial as I am tried of the games she is playing. Thing is with all this proof, how do I go about showing the judge that she has misstated things, has flat out lied, and all she wants is money. I do have a lawyer, but I am concern that my lawyer wants only to take the easy way out and not fight. Does anyone any advice or suggestions that can be of help. It should also be noted that her legal aid lawyer has been dragging their feet on their responses. They asked for infomation back on the first of June and stated they would have a reply back on June 22. They finally gave a letter state what I said above three weeks late. Thing is she has been dragging this out with her legal aid lawyer while I have to pay a lawyer.
Again, any advice/suggestions would be welcome.
I should also state that my ex wrote a Dear Howard letter saying that she was leaving because of the ADHD and knew that it would going to be hard for her to be on her own, but she was going to make it.
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