As you just said, "have their voices heard" not choose where they want to live - but have their voices heard. You, as a parent, listen to their voice and govern yourself according to their age and the maturity of the opinions that they express. It is a PARENT's job. Not a court, judge or child's job. YOU are their advocate. If you cannot present a reasonable case to the courts that is based on what you think your child wants - then your child is not mature enough to make any decisions about living arrangements.
Oh yeah - and don't EVER ask them where they want to live... Please do not make them choose between their parents.
Oh yeah - and don't EVER ask them where they want to live... Please do not make them choose between their parents.
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