The latest in my situation is that things have escalated to new levels of awfulness whereby I now fear to be in close proximity with my ex. He has been off work for 5 months due to an injury and has been sitting at home virtually email bombing me every day about anything he can think to complain about. His emails and texts have become belligerent and nasty, to the point that I’ve told him he is not to text me ever again and I have had to create a new email to keep my regular mailbox free from all his garbage. He is also using things to hold over me ie. give in to my demands or I’m withholding daycare payment/tax info/support/consent letter for travel etc.
Last night he confronted me at our child’s sports activity to yell at me for various things. I walked away to my vehicle and didn’t engage but he followed me to my vehicle and persisted. My husband saw this from across the parking lot and ran to my defence, basically saying “Ange get in the car we’re leaving”. At this point the ex barred our entry into the vehicle and said we weren’t going anywhere without a resolution to the issue. Ex and husband then got in each other’s faces and almost came to blows. Nobody threw a punch but my husband was shoved pretty aggressively. All while parents, kids and OUR OWN children looked on. This whole thing was absolutely horrible and I did not sleep a wink last night thinking about it. I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to make him angrier and worsen the situation, at the same time this guy is a cop and threatened at several points to make a “phone call to his friends”. This isn’t the first time he’s thrown around his cop-power with me either. I am worried that the kids will have to see this again. He is volatile and unglued I think. What should I do? I have written out a whole account of the incident. Should I email it to my lawyer? My parents think I should report it to the cops. I am just looking for advice I guess.
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Last night he confronted me at our child’s sports activity to yell at me for various things. I walked away to my vehicle and didn’t engage but he followed me to my vehicle and persisted. My husband saw this from across the parking lot and ran to my defence, basically saying “Ange get in the car we’re leaving”. At this point the ex barred our entry into the vehicle and said we weren’t going anywhere without a resolution to the issue. Ex and husband then got in each other’s faces and almost came to blows. Nobody threw a punch but my husband was shoved pretty aggressively. All while parents, kids and OUR OWN children looked on. This whole thing was absolutely horrible and I did not sleep a wink last night thinking about it. I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to make him angrier and worsen the situation, at the same time this guy is a cop and threatened at several points to make a “phone call to his friends”. This isn’t the first time he’s thrown around his cop-power with me either. I am worried that the kids will have to see this again. He is volatile and unglued I think. What should I do? I have written out a whole account of the incident. Should I email it to my lawyer? My parents think I should report it to the cops. I am just looking for advice I guess.
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