My STBX is on her 5th rental since separation (~5 yrs). I have no problem with STBX moving around within the area. 3 kids from 11-17, 2 are 50/50, 3rd is FT with me. Apart from one location, none of these rentals has had separate bedrooms for the kids. The current and last two places have been bachelors. There is an issue with STBX not working anywhere near potential. I feel that the kids would not change the status quo as they value time with both parents. One of the 50/50 kids is an introvert and has to lock himself in the bathroom to get his space. I'm concerned about their wellbeing in terms of privacy especially as they mature. The eldest (FT with me) feels as though he has been rejected as he asked STBX for a separate bedroom so he could spend more time there but STBX refused, although it should be possible within budget (CS and SS is paid out and more time would mean more $$).
I guess I should see what they want to do? It's just ridiculous and I can't fathom why its continuing.
I guess I should see what they want to do? It's just ridiculous and I can't fathom why its continuing.
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