so my ex has a history of recommending things to me, sending things I dont need and trying to control me/my parenting/my time with child. This includes what activities to do with child when she is sick, where to joy take her, I.e. dont take child to fair because she is sick, and sending child with tylenol.
I have tylenol at my home and sort of take offense. worst part, she avoids communicating with me and gets child to tell me.. here is tylenol make sure to put it in fridge...child has been insisting ALL day that I must put it in fridge because her mom does and that's what her mom told her. I indicated to child on the container it clearly states to store at room temperature.
other parent has recently accused me of using the child as a messenger although clearly it is her that does this.. and did it again not too long ago getting child to tell me she has enrolled child in extra ordinary activities on my time, etc..
what is best thing to do here ? I've been just ignoring her crap to avoid getting sucked into back and forth on OFW and now she has started texting me after every OFW message to make sure I read it.... agreement clearly states communication. to. be on OFW unless in. case of emergency.
Ex's are really screwed up I tell ya.
would be ideal to take the tylenol to court and give it to her and set her in place in front of all the other parents there? I think I could shut her up nicely. or maybe get my lawyer to do it? I'm really sick and tired of her crap and feel the need to confront her face to face. nice polite messages and lawyer letters and even counselling and a parenting plan hasn't done the trick.
or just give her the silent treatment and only communicate important things such as appointments and appointment outcomes ?
I have tylenol at my home and sort of take offense. worst part, she avoids communicating with me and gets child to tell me.. here is tylenol make sure to put it in fridge...child has been insisting ALL day that I must put it in fridge because her mom does and that's what her mom told her. I indicated to child on the container it clearly states to store at room temperature.
other parent has recently accused me of using the child as a messenger although clearly it is her that does this.. and did it again not too long ago getting child to tell me she has enrolled child in extra ordinary activities on my time, etc..
what is best thing to do here ? I've been just ignoring her crap to avoid getting sucked into back and forth on OFW and now she has started texting me after every OFW message to make sure I read it.... agreement clearly states communication. to. be on OFW unless in. case of emergency.
Ex's are really screwed up I tell ya.
would be ideal to take the tylenol to court and give it to her and set her in place in front of all the other parents there? I think I could shut her up nicely. or maybe get my lawyer to do it? I'm really sick and tired of her crap and feel the need to confront her face to face. nice polite messages and lawyer letters and even counselling and a parenting plan hasn't done the trick.
or just give her the silent treatment and only communicate important things such as appointments and appointment outcomes ?
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