Hi
Ok, so just when you think it is safe and things will go smoothly for the summer......
Basically after my ex did not let us know his summer visitation intentions, we asked him for them. He asked for an extra month to think about it, we gave him that....and that brought us to June. In June, he requested visitation as followed:
four days in AUg.
(court order says he can have 7 days in July and 7 days in Aug...not conseq.). And he asked for 4 days in Aug. A lawyer then explained to him what he had asked for, we reconfirmed it all, including drop off and pick up times...for the Aug dates. ( we write everything down in a journal, part of our court agreement)
He calls Sunday am, demanding to see his child, using much profanity and threatening court action, stating I am preventing him from seeing his child.... (this phone call lasted almost 1 hr of him screaming and swearing at the mediator who took the call)
When he calmed down, we asked him to email his new requests for summer visitation. We are trying to be a amicable as possible. He is still threatening court action.
So...what are the chances, if he does take me to court, of him winning this?
I was merely going by what he asked for.....nowhere did he request Sunday.
I am so confused.
Does anyone else go through this? Does it ever get any easier?
Suggestions? My daughter is 6, I cannot keep going through this, nor can she. She has playdates and plans, is it realistic for him to call and demand more access after dates have been set and court ordered timelines been extended, and extended again for him?
I just want to live peacefully.
Thanks for letting me get it out there and I really do appreciate any comments. Helps me think things through.
Ok, so just when you think it is safe and things will go smoothly for the summer......
Basically after my ex did not let us know his summer visitation intentions, we asked him for them. He asked for an extra month to think about it, we gave him that....and that brought us to June. In June, he requested visitation as followed:
four days in AUg.
(court order says he can have 7 days in July and 7 days in Aug...not conseq.). And he asked for 4 days in Aug. A lawyer then explained to him what he had asked for, we reconfirmed it all, including drop off and pick up times...for the Aug dates. ( we write everything down in a journal, part of our court agreement)
He calls Sunday am, demanding to see his child, using much profanity and threatening court action, stating I am preventing him from seeing his child.... (this phone call lasted almost 1 hr of him screaming and swearing at the mediator who took the call)
When he calmed down, we asked him to email his new requests for summer visitation. We are trying to be a amicable as possible. He is still threatening court action.
So...what are the chances, if he does take me to court, of him winning this?
I was merely going by what he asked for.....nowhere did he request Sunday.
I am so confused.
Does anyone else go through this? Does it ever get any easier?
Suggestions? My daughter is 6, I cannot keep going through this, nor can she. She has playdates and plans, is it realistic for him to call and demand more access after dates have been set and court ordered timelines been extended, and extended again for him?
I just want to live peacefully.
Thanks for letting me get it out there and I really do appreciate any comments. Helps me think things through.
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