The ex is an extremely difficult person, the type that does not answer basic questions and finds it easier to lie than be truthful even when the truth should be easy or is mandated. She is a bit of a passive aggressive control freak. It is difficult and a Parental Coordinator was not able to overcome this; she played the second one like a fiddle.
The ex recently just got a job after a few years.
I had offered to care for our child when she was working as I am working from home and have been successful caring for her while doing so (remote schooling helped).
She too is working from home but has immediately determined she cannot care for the child during the day. Which seems a bit off because she gets a lot of breaks during the day.
I had stated that we can work something out with access etc (in case she is worried about child support and custody). She won't entertain the issue at all but did want me to be her care backup (?!).
So she is going to pay someone to care for our child instead of being flexible or simply sending them over to me for care simply out of spite.
Another factor is that COVID is going on and we agreed not to send her to school even if it restarted this year. Our child is in a COVID susceptible group.
What are my options here?
CS
The ex recently just got a job after a few years.
I had offered to care for our child when she was working as I am working from home and have been successful caring for her while doing so (remote schooling helped).
She too is working from home but has immediately determined she cannot care for the child during the day. Which seems a bit off because she gets a lot of breaks during the day.
I had stated that we can work something out with access etc (in case she is worried about child support and custody). She won't entertain the issue at all but did want me to be her care backup (?!).
So she is going to pay someone to care for our child instead of being flexible or simply sending them over to me for care simply out of spite.
Another factor is that COVID is going on and we agreed not to send her to school even if it restarted this year. Our child is in a COVID susceptible group.
What are my options here?
CS
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