My wife and I are about to get a final draft of our separation agreement to bring to our lawyers and hopefully sign. I want to get a divorce (it has been 1.75 since she left so uncontested). She is moving in with her boyfriend and I've been in a relationship for about a year and my girlfriend obviously would rather see me divorced and this causing some issue with my relationship. Divorce isn't something my ex and I haven't actually discussed, so my question is: should I wait until the separation agreement is accepted before I serve her with a divorce or should I tell her my intent before the separation and get it done all at once? I don't want to open a can of worms here as I've been trying to get a separation agreement in place for over a year now. Is there anything I should keep in mind? One thing I ought to mention is she is still on my health plan and (at least 1.75 years ago) she was kinda dependent on it for depression meds, birth control, and possibly of meds i may not be aware of. I imagine if and when divorced she'd be no longer eligible on my plan?
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