I barely slept a wink last night...
There was finally an agreement made that both parties wanted the involvement of the OCL so a paper consensual motion was to be processed through the courts. She and her lawyer prepared the motion. An email was sent with a copy of it.
Immediately our lawyer spotted the fact that the "consensual" motion was full of misleading allegations against my partner . Our lawyer immediately wrote them and said DO NOT FILE THAT! there was a flurry of emails between the two lawyers and her Lawyer ignored ours and filed it anyways and said basically if you have a problem redo it all and file your own counter. This was supposed to be a consensual motion.
Our lawyer then gave us 2 choices - file another one which would cost us a lot more money (we've already paid 11,000 and not even gone to case conference so told her to stop the unnecessary costs.)
or 2 wait til case conference in July and bring it up then to the judge adding the complaint to the brief (and hope that worse case scenario a judge doesn't order supervised visits - unlikely she said.)
Our lawyer is playing it above board - very thorough - very expensive. My fiancee is wanting to do option 2. Ultimately it is his decision - they are his kids.
All night I am having nightmares of the OCL now coming with preconceived notions against us and more false allegations being made against us all. I am so worried because we are dealing with a total nutjob with a mission for vengeance at all costs. She will hurt her own children to win and money is her food.
Now that this motion has been filed - how soon will the OCL show up at my door? How do they find the truth when they are being fed so many lies?
There was finally an agreement made that both parties wanted the involvement of the OCL so a paper consensual motion was to be processed through the courts. She and her lawyer prepared the motion. An email was sent with a copy of it.
Immediately our lawyer spotted the fact that the "consensual" motion was full of misleading allegations against my partner . Our lawyer immediately wrote them and said DO NOT FILE THAT! there was a flurry of emails between the two lawyers and her Lawyer ignored ours and filed it anyways and said basically if you have a problem redo it all and file your own counter. This was supposed to be a consensual motion.
Our lawyer then gave us 2 choices - file another one which would cost us a lot more money (we've already paid 11,000 and not even gone to case conference so told her to stop the unnecessary costs.)
or 2 wait til case conference in July and bring it up then to the judge adding the complaint to the brief (and hope that worse case scenario a judge doesn't order supervised visits - unlikely she said.)
Our lawyer is playing it above board - very thorough - very expensive. My fiancee is wanting to do option 2. Ultimately it is his decision - they are his kids.
All night I am having nightmares of the OCL now coming with preconceived notions against us and more false allegations being made against us all. I am so worried because we are dealing with a total nutjob with a mission for vengeance at all costs. She will hurt her own children to win and money is her food.
Now that this motion has been filed - how soon will the OCL show up at my door? How do they find the truth when they are being fed so many lies?
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