trueblue
I understand your desire to just 'give up' - I have heard those words from my current SO many time ... but what he always says in the end is "I love my kids too much to just give up, and let her take us away from each other"
I don't know if there is ever one right answer in cases like yours ... it makes me so very sad to hear stories such as yours - and in fact, like ours (in my new, hybrid family!)
I wish so much that parents who play these types of games with their children would see what they are doing to these kids.
I don't really have any advice to offer, but just know that you are not alone, others have been through very similar situations.
In our case an interim motion was filed opposing her move 2 hours away, and we won it - she was required to remain in the region, and our time with the kids was not reduced. When PMs are back up, message me, and I will give you more detail.
In the meantime, just love your kids, that's what you do best ... the rest will work out the way it was meant to in the end.
I understand your desire to just 'give up' - I have heard those words from my current SO many time ... but what he always says in the end is "I love my kids too much to just give up, and let her take us away from each other"
I don't know if there is ever one right answer in cases like yours ... it makes me so very sad to hear stories such as yours - and in fact, like ours (in my new, hybrid family!)
I wish so much that parents who play these types of games with their children would see what they are doing to these kids.
I don't really have any advice to offer, but just know that you are not alone, others have been through very similar situations.
In our case an interim motion was filed opposing her move 2 hours away, and we won it - she was required to remain in the region, and our time with the kids was not reduced. When PMs are back up, message me, and I will give you more detail.
In the meantime, just love your kids, that's what you do best ... the rest will work out the way it was meant to in the end.
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