***UPDATE***
On April 30, went down to the Courthouse and filed the 8A - Application. We are filing joint..... now to wait the 6 weeks (-ish) to get confirmation the clearance has been returned, then off to file the next package of paperwork (and the next cheque!) LOL!!
My BF had asked me if stbx was paying for any of this, and I said no. IMO it was me who moved out, me who started the proceedings, and me who is looking forward to the freedom...... I am paying for the paperwork myself.... ((on a sarcastic note - looking forward to the "haters" ripping on me for "being so selfish" but I'm rather proud of myself for standing on my own two feet....lol!!))
In the last few months, things have been going well! Stbx and I have ironed out the last couple of wrinkles dealing with support. We are communicating well.... and I'm just hoping to hell we can continue doing so! LOL!!
And yes, he is fully aware that bf and I are still together.... there's been no drama, other than a couple eye rolls.... it's *finally* clued in for him when he signed the 8A that I am not changing my mind and I am not coming back to him! LOL!
On April 30, went down to the Courthouse and filed the 8A - Application. We are filing joint..... now to wait the 6 weeks (-ish) to get confirmation the clearance has been returned, then off to file the next package of paperwork (and the next cheque!) LOL!!
My BF had asked me if stbx was paying for any of this, and I said no. IMO it was me who moved out, me who started the proceedings, and me who is looking forward to the freedom...... I am paying for the paperwork myself.... ((on a sarcastic note - looking forward to the "haters" ripping on me for "being so selfish" but I'm rather proud of myself for standing on my own two feet....lol!!))
In the last few months, things have been going well! Stbx and I have ironed out the last couple of wrinkles dealing with support. We are communicating well.... and I'm just hoping to hell we can continue doing so! LOL!!
And yes, he is fully aware that bf and I are still together.... there's been no drama, other than a couple eye rolls.... it's *finally* clued in for him when he signed the 8A that I am not changing my mind and I am not coming back to him! LOL!
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