Okay heres the story in a nut shell!
Have dated myt EX now on and off for 15 + years. 5 years ago this July we purchased a house together. I had RRSP money and used about 6700 bucks for a Down Payment. But I took out 17000 to help us pay off bills and stuff. Also helped Her lease a new car (my name is not on her lease, i just helped with a down payment) We have had issues on and off for the whole time we were together in the house aswell. Last night she told me she was going to call the cops because of a silly and stupid thing I did on Sunday night. I shouldn't have done what I did but I was hopefull that there might have been a comming resolution to our problems.....Anyway, now I have choosen to move out of the home to ease her mind and to start the process of selling the house. So here are my questions....
1. What do I have to continue to pay? Mortgage of course, but hydro bill? Water bill? - My name is on them so...I think I am kind S.O.L.
2. Because we are common law whats the deal with our things? I have a number of computers (I was a computer tech for over 10 years) I gave her a computer about 1 year ago and she threw it on the floor and destoryed it. I feel as though at this point I have done my part. She still thinks I owe her a computer. Any ideas?
3. We have a dog that we purchased together....should I just let her have him?
4. Am I right for leaving the house?
5. Will I be screwed in the long run?
Those are a few of my questions I don't really care about other stuff but....I just want to know about a few of these things....
Thanks for all your help....
Have dated myt EX now on and off for 15 + years. 5 years ago this July we purchased a house together. I had RRSP money and used about 6700 bucks for a Down Payment. But I took out 17000 to help us pay off bills and stuff. Also helped Her lease a new car (my name is not on her lease, i just helped with a down payment) We have had issues on and off for the whole time we were together in the house aswell. Last night she told me she was going to call the cops because of a silly and stupid thing I did on Sunday night. I shouldn't have done what I did but I was hopefull that there might have been a comming resolution to our problems.....Anyway, now I have choosen to move out of the home to ease her mind and to start the process of selling the house. So here are my questions....
1. What do I have to continue to pay? Mortgage of course, but hydro bill? Water bill? - My name is on them so...I think I am kind S.O.L.
2. Because we are common law whats the deal with our things? I have a number of computers (I was a computer tech for over 10 years) I gave her a computer about 1 year ago and she threw it on the floor and destoryed it. I feel as though at this point I have done my part. She still thinks I owe her a computer. Any ideas?
3. We have a dog that we purchased together....should I just let her have him?
4. Am I right for leaving the house?
5. Will I be screwed in the long run?
Those are a few of my questions I don't really care about other stuff but....I just want to know about a few of these things....
Thanks for all your help....
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