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Came across this statement when we were first seperated and I was hearing some very "nasty" stuff being said about me by my then STBX and his family.
It was very important for my STBX to let everyone know exactly "what kind" of person I was. It was very clear from this that the only victims in this saga was him and his parents, who had, had the misfortune to have crossed paths with me. Let us just say, there was use of some very "colourful" language.
We have two children, one was a toddler and the other a newborn at the time. They carried them around and spoke of them proudly often in the same conversation in which they told everyone about how "awful" the mother was.
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Originally posted by oink View PostTell me you didn't do exactly the same thing when you met and sat down with your girlfriends for a chinwag?
Given that any friends were all ones I had met through him, I lost them as soon as we seperated. Not sure with whom I was supposed to chin-wag with. Though a coffee break would have been nice back then.
If I had had any time to spare and sit down to speak to someone, I would have not spent that "precious" time talking about my ex. Given that I was spending so much time already dedicated to dealing with him through the court, the CAS and the Police, the last thing I would have wanted to talk about was my ex during a "spare" 15 minutes. I refused to give him that.Last edited by Nadia; 03-17-2013, 11:07 AM.
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Oink, stop kicking up shit. We all need to confide in someone. And here's a newsflash: most ppl don't want to sit and talk about separation/divorce drama. Esp people who have not been through it. If anything, I've found that the past few years of hell has made me much more private and introverted.
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