I'ts gone three in the morning and I've effectively given up sleeping, my lawyer informed me that my X is 100% opposed to a shared custody regime where in the children spend a month with me and the next with her (work schedule forces me to be away a month at a time).
My lawyer has also informed me that I'm up the proverbial creek and in the same breath that the courts "absolutely encourage maximum contact with each parent, they also like to keep things steady for the children"
I'm sorry i don't understand how steady (set schedule) and maximum contact (50/50) do not apply here.
My lawyer has indicated that I'm obviously allowed to pursue this course of action (50/50) and will gladly offer up a more "suitable attorney" for my case in order to save me the added expenses of travel.
So perhaps my general mistrust of lawyers but what the hell has she done to help me?
And secondly, if I see the natural progression of all this, even though I want my children, my X wants to play gate keeper and is apparently well within her rights, I'll also be responsible for paying her full CS because she just doesn't wanna share (which was one of the reasons I left in the first place)
This can't be right, in anyones mind.
My lawyer has also informed me that I'm up the proverbial creek and in the same breath that the courts "absolutely encourage maximum contact with each parent, they also like to keep things steady for the children"
I'm sorry i don't understand how steady (set schedule) and maximum contact (50/50) do not apply here.
My lawyer has indicated that I'm obviously allowed to pursue this course of action (50/50) and will gladly offer up a more "suitable attorney" for my case in order to save me the added expenses of travel.
So perhaps my general mistrust of lawyers but what the hell has she done to help me?
And secondly, if I see the natural progression of all this, even though I want my children, my X wants to play gate keeper and is apparently well within her rights, I'll also be responsible for paying her full CS because she just doesn't wanna share (which was one of the reasons I left in the first place)
This can't be right, in anyones mind.
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