Thanks. Ive managed pretty well and try to be a good person.
As for my partner...his ex’s new thing is to claim he abused them. His kids believe it too. The judge at their motion blasted her for making that claim as it wasn’t proven and it had no bearing on the matter. His kids are also really spoiled and self entitled. After everything we went through to not only get through school but also keep a roof over our heads, I have zero sympathy for them. Their mother has taught them its ok to live outside their means, spend money all you want, dad will have to pay! Except dad isn’t going to pay. He even offered to give kid money on a monthly basis and she told him no because he was a thief! Now his attitude is, you don’t want me, you don’t get my money. He will pay only what is required of him and nothing more. And he told them both that. They are still believing their mother and it won’t change until they are on their own.
You are a good father regardless of what they or your ex say. Don’t ever think otherwise.
As for my partner...his ex’s new thing is to claim he abused them. His kids believe it too. The judge at their motion blasted her for making that claim as it wasn’t proven and it had no bearing on the matter. His kids are also really spoiled and self entitled. After everything we went through to not only get through school but also keep a roof over our heads, I have zero sympathy for them. Their mother has taught them its ok to live outside their means, spend money all you want, dad will have to pay! Except dad isn’t going to pay. He even offered to give kid money on a monthly basis and she told him no because he was a thief! Now his attitude is, you don’t want me, you don’t get my money. He will pay only what is required of him and nothing more. And he told them both that. They are still believing their mother and it won’t change until they are on their own.
You are a good father regardless of what they or your ex say. Don’t ever think otherwise.
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