So I went to court and self repped, I got the motion for the surname name change of the child(6 month old) and I want to thank all the members here for their 2 cents. I made a total fool of myself and the stress is still effecting me days later....feel better now but I dont like court...rather be spending time with the child...
I`m also looking for joint custody, the duty council heard my story and said I had a chance at joint custody even thou we live far apart due to the nature of our breakup(she left while pregnant moved in with family 5 hrs away and Ive been contesting ever since). but he stressed that I need a lawyer to get it done...I don't have the money for that ....more making a fool of myself in court....
I just got the name change but I`m looking to give it up...The long hrs driving home....made me think ..how far would you go to be a father...how about everything.
My new offer to settle
-She moves back to my area......
-no name change.
-she gets sole custody
-no offset ever no mater how much money she makes or what the time split is between us on visitation is with the child...she gets maximum
-I pay her moving expenses.... thinking $2000.00 paid over 4 months $500.0 monthly
-I pay her 20% over base child support tables..ongoing
-section 7 split according to income.
Looking to be a father ...its 5 hrs away one way....
If you have any thoughts pls chime in
I`m also looking for joint custody, the duty council heard my story and said I had a chance at joint custody even thou we live far apart due to the nature of our breakup(she left while pregnant moved in with family 5 hrs away and Ive been contesting ever since). but he stressed that I need a lawyer to get it done...I don't have the money for that ....more making a fool of myself in court....
I just got the name change but I`m looking to give it up...The long hrs driving home....made me think ..how far would you go to be a father...how about everything.
My new offer to settle
-She moves back to my area......
-no name change.
-she gets sole custody
-no offset ever no mater how much money she makes or what the time split is between us on visitation is with the child...she gets maximum
-I pay her moving expenses.... thinking $2000.00 paid over 4 months $500.0 monthly
-I pay her 20% over base child support tables..ongoing
-section 7 split according to income.
Looking to be a father ...its 5 hrs away one way....
If you have any thoughts pls chime in
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